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Your beliefs form the foundation of your reality and influence your life experience. If your beliefs are rotten to the core, your reality will be too.
If you believe the world is a horrible place and everything sucks, do you think thatโs an objective reality, or a personal hell youโve created for yourself? Maybe you believe life is full of amazing opportunities, adventures, and connections. Youโve created a great life for yourself because your beliefs facilitated that reality.
Thatโs why you need to do some summer cleaning to discard stubborn belief systems that arenโt serving you and cultivate healthier ones that make your reality a better place to live in.
Knowing how big of a role belief systems play in the quality of your life, letโs look at how you can identify the beliefs that arenโt serving you and construct healthier belief systems that enhance your life.
What Are Limiting Belief Systems?
A limiting belief system is a restrictive belief that reduces the quality of your life or prevents you from reaching your full potential.
Belief systems help us navigate the world effectively. For example, youโre not going to steal because your belief systems tell you itโs wrong. Perhaps you believe that you can achieve whatever you put your mind to, and this drives you to achieve more.
Belief systems are limiting when they prevent you from making the most of your life. View them as cognitive blocks that have developed at some point in your life and prevent you from achieving health, wealth, and happiness.
A common limiting belief is limiting beliefs about money – or a money block. Some people will think that money is scarce or impossible to make, or that wealth is reserved for a special kind of person. Of course, this belief doesn’t inspire them to achieve more or encourage a higher quality of life but keeps them in a rut.
Another common limiting belief is the belief that relationships are never going to work out, that people will always take advantage of them, or that relationships aren’t worth it. Due to some bad experiences or a reinforced mindset, sometimes people develop limiting beliefs regarding relationships.
The result… The belief holds them back!
Are these beliefs inspiring you to do better, or bringing you down? Most of us have some sort of limiting beliefs. Perhaps these limiting beliefs come in the form of commitment, where you hold yourself back from a stable partnership out of fear that it wonโt work out.
Maybeย you sabotage good opportunitiesย that come your way because you donโt feel worthy. With all these mental barriers, it can be hard to get anywhere in life because, consciously or unconsciously, you hold yourself back.
Are you a victim of the world, or are you a creator of your reality?
Examples of Limiting Beliefs
- Iโm not good enough to achieve my dreams
- Iโm a victim of the world
- People donโt like me
- I need more experience
- I fail at everything I do
- Iโm too old/too young to do this
- Iโm not smart enough to do that
- I donโt have enough time to do what I want
- Iโll never be successful
- I donโt deserve love
Examples of Healthy Beliefs
- I can become more intelligent and learn whatever I need to succeed
- I am in control of my life
- I am a valuable asset to any job
- I am already successful in my own way
- There will always be more opportunities
- Amazing people always come into my life
- Every difficult situation is temporary
- Life will get better
- I am abundant with everything I need
- I will meet the person of my dreams one day
Identifying Limiting Belief Systems

Identifying limiting belief systems starts with an awareness of them.
When I used to think about money, there was a block. Even though I wanted to get ahead financially, I got discouraged. I thought about how much competition there was and how I could provide any value to others.
Because of this limiting belief system, I avoided a lot of good opportunities that came up because I didnโt feel I deserved them.
Because of my belief system regarding money, I manifested a lot of issues with it. Every time I started to get ahead, something would come up that separated me from my earnings. I would get cheated on, scammed, and robbed.
So I looked into this belief system and why realistically, I couldnโt do as well as anyone else.
I started spending more, enjoying it more, and stopped thinking about how much I needed it. When the need for more money lessened but the value I got out of it improved, things began to change.
As my beliefs surrounding money have become more positive, I have had a lot of amazing adventures in life, and more opportunities in this form keep arising.
Unless you are conscious about what you believe and why you believe it, these negative patterns will remain undetected and continue to control your life.ย
Cultivate an Awareness About Your Belief Systems
Often, we arenโt aware of the beliefs we have. Because we mindlessly reinforce them without ever paying attention to them, they continue doing their dirty work outside the spotlight of awareness.
Therefore, you need to think critically about your belief systems.
This requires you to dig into what you think youโve known for a long time and start questioning things. Once you identify your beliefs, really think about them and how strongly youโre holding onto them. Here are some prompts to get the juices flowing:
- How is your relationship with money?ย Is it abundant and easy to access, or something you just canโt have no matter how hard you try? Do you think money is bad, or is it just a tool?
- Do you consider yourself a lucky person? Why, why not?
- Do you believe in spirituality?ย What do you believe happens when you die? What beliefs do you have surrounding death, and how do they translate into your life experience?
- How do you feel about society? Is it going down the shitter, or do you believe weโre going to have a utopia? Whatโs wrong with society, and how can we make positive, lasting change?
- Are governments here to serve us or control us?ย Is it the whole system, certain individuals? What are your thoughts on corruption, and what can be done about it?
- Are aliens real?ย If so, what are they like? Are there many different types of them, or just a few? Have they already made contact, and will they soon make themselves known to humanity?
- What are your thoughts on spirits, demons, and the paranormal?ย Where do they come from? Are they here to help you or hurt you, or are they all different?
- What are the biggest keys to being a happy person? How do you become happy? What does happiness look like to you, and what needs to be done to achieve it?
The emotions surrounding your belief structures are a good indication of whether your beliefs are serving you or not. Ultimately, when youโre thinking about a certain belief structure, does it make you feel heavy or light?
If you feel positive emotions such as hope, excitement, or joy when looking into different aspects of your life, then thatโs a good indication that your beliefs are healthy. On the other hand, if your beliefs make you feel resentful, angry, shameful, guilty, or any low-vibrational emotion, they’re probably working against you.
Therefore, look into different areas of your life and see what comes up. Think about your career, friends, dating life, and how many opportunities you get. Take a moment to think about how you feel about your life right now and inspect where the negative emotions arise.
Letโs say you believe that only bad people get money and good people have to remain broke. How does this make you feel? If itโs not positive in any way, then you know that the belief needs to go.
Inspecting your beliefs and feeling the emotions when you dig into them will give you a solid lead to identify which belief systems are holding you back and which ones are helping you excel in life. Donโt be too hard on yourself as itโs normal to have some limiting belief systems, but be critical of yourself so you can identify these beliefs and take steps to heal them.
When you catch yourself reinforcing something negative, stop and think about it. Reframe your belief by reinterpreting it differently, and push yourself to think about why you can rather than why you canโt.
Understand that youโre trying to reinforce healthier belief systems, and this can take time. Imagine it as a mental muscle that you need to exercise. You do this by catching your negative beliefs when theyโre kicking in and forcing yourself to think about the situation in a more optimistic way.
Changing Limiting Belief System for the Better

To get your mind into an optimal state, first, you need to clear up some mental space. While youโre hosting limiting belief systems, you wonโt be able to cultivate conflicting healthy belief systems.
If a belief is not making you happier, better, or serving your growth, then itโs time to look at why youโre still holding onto it.
Your beliefs should be tailored around your ideal vision of reality. That means that you should work on adopting beliefs that make you feel happier and more fulfilled.
For example, you might believe that people are harmful, that money corrupts people, and that every politician is evil. You might believe that you canโt be happy and make lots of money or that you will neverย make itย in life without doing bad deeds.
These are counterproductive beliefs that certainly donโt serve your best interests. They act as walls and prevent you from growing and expanding into the person that youโre supposed to be.
Life-enhancing beliefs might be along the lines of…
โI can achieve anything that I put my mind to.โ
โI have faith that the universe will take care of m.eโ
or
โI consider myself a lucky person.โ
Believing that the universe will take care of you reduces stress. Believing that everything is meant to be provides reassurance. Your belief systems can also cultivate better ways of living through doctrines ofย nonresistance.
You Need to Challenge Your Belief Systems
Stop watering the beliefs that donโt serve you and let them wither away like dying weeds.
Stop giving energy to limiting beliefs, as the time and attention you give to those beliefs is like watering them.
The truth is, you can believe whatever you want. It doesnโt matter, it just depends on what thoughts youโre tendering. So stop entertaining beliefs that degrade your quality of life and put your energy into better things.
Beliefs are powerful.
If you believe that youโre socially awkward and bad with people, then in reality, you will be. If you genuinely believe that you have a good social life or that youโre living a good life, then that is the reality you will carve out for yourself.
You will begin moving towards the paradigms that you believe in, so make sure youโre tending the beliefs you want to have and neglecting the ones you donโt.
Anย open mindย is the worst enemy of limiting belief systems. Because if you open the floodgates and allow yourself to be inundated with alternate perspectives and new ideas, those limiting belief systems wonโt stand for long.
You should always be learning and growing, and acknowledge that your beliefs are always changing, as do you. Therefore, allow your beliefs to naturally evolve as your knowledge, wisdom, and life experience do.
Usually, we just donโt care enough to dig into opposing beliefs because we are comfortable with our own. We donโt want to rattle our stable paradigms because those paradigms are attached to the ego.
But if you step back and gain an unbiased perspective, you might realize that your beliefs are not as solid as you once thought. Therefore, donโt shut down arguments or combat people who oppose your beliefs
Hear everyone out, gain as much knowledge on all perspectives as you can, and incorporate those views into your own beliefs โ at least the ones that make sense to you.
Cultivating Healthier Beliefs That Encourage Your Growth
Beliefs are formed over time throughout your life experience. We typically accept our belief structures as a default that canโt be changed.
As with your perception of life, beliefs are not concrete. It doesnโt matter how stuck in your ways you are. You can reconstruct your beliefs.
Itโs important to understand that beliefs can change and that you can change yours to accommodate your desired lifestyle, attitudes, and resulting behaviors. By realizing that your beliefs are always evolving, you open the gate to possibilities.
The first step to change your belief systems is to acknowledge that there is some nonsense and some validity in everything. There is no ultimate truth, just theories, ideas, and speculation.
Even beliefs that have a strong standing and those that are backed by science arenโt unquestionable. Reality is not black and white. We tend to paint a picture that grossly simplifies life when this is a counterproductive approach to take.
To change your belief systems, you need to understand that there is no right or wrong. There is no correct or incorrect. Beliefs are subjective. The truth isโฆ nobody knows what the fuck is happening in reality, which means that everything is plausible, and this gives you leverage.
Anything will seem logical if you convince yourself of it. So donโt rule out any options just yet, because your knowledge is always changing.
Cultivate a Desire for Change
Your desire to believe something will create the actual belief. Therefore, start looking into the beliefs that you want to have and make them your orbital point of focus.
Usually, the problem is not that you canโt form a new belief; itโs that you never even thought about it, or have no incentive to change your belief systems. When you engage different beliefs and build the desire to believe them, you will start resonating with them. Thatโs why you should think aboutย whatย you want to believe and gain conscious control over that.
How often do you meet people who believe in something that they donโt want to? Itโs a pretty rare phenomenon, as when you want to see things in a particular way, youโre going to start convincing yourself into it and pulling out every tiny shred of information that supports that belief.
If you want to believe that humanity is going to prosper and weโre going to move towards an interstellar species, then thereโs no reason why you canโt. I do believe this because I want to. It makes me feel optimistic about the future.
If you want to believe in something hard enough, you will start to believe it. When you start doubting it or you donโt care, thatโs when movement stops.
Inspect the Details to Change Your View
To believe in something, you need to see the sense behind it. It needs to be a plausible theory to you, otherwise, you will discard the idea. Therefore, to change your belief systems, you need to look for logic to support that belief.
The thing is that there is logic and plausibility in everything if you inspect it closely enough. Most people who donโt believe in something have no interest in researching it. Since they never actually take the initiative to look into the counterargument or things that donโt align with them, they never give the belief structure a chance to seed.
If you start digging into conspiracy theories, you are likely to start believing in them, or at least the ones that resonate with you, because youโre digging into the details and giving them a lot of thought. Who would have thought, many conspiracy theories are very convincing?
Look at the details, search for information that supports the belief, and before you know it, youโll be gathering a mound of insight into why the belief seems plausible.
Surround Yourself With Better Influences
The people in your life contribute a lot towards your belief systems, which is why itโs important to be aware of your social influences and to be around people you want to learn and grow from.
There will always be people who doubt you and discourage you. Thatโs why itโs important to be mindful of whom you tend to spend your time with.
If your friends are lazy, unmotivated, and downers, you can bet that itโs going to rub off on you. Likewise, spend your time around winners who are motivated, then youโre in a much more positive environment that is going to instill self-belief.
Spend more time around interesting people with whom you can learn and grow, and you will start adopting their belief systems too.